The Big Stick

“I don’t know who we should be thanking Dr. Glover for 30+ years of life-changing wisdom; or Tony Endelman for figuring out how to turn all of that wisdom into one easily digestible, thoughtfully organized, seriously engaging book that should be on every man’s nightstand.” - Connell Barrett, author of Dating Sucks But You Don’t

“Escaping the Nice Guy cage is daunting and overwhelming...and sadly most nice guys never make it. Fortunately for us all, Tony Endelman has distilled the decades of liberating teachings of Dr. Glover into an instantly engaging roadmap to become a more confident, powerful, free version of you.” —Dr. Aziz Gazipura, bestselling author of Not Nice

“At a time when men are facing significant challenges with culture and relationships, The Big Stick is an ideal roadmap. This book is a much-needed compendium of Dr. Glover’s no-nonsense strategies for self-mastery, and for living life on our terms. Do yourself a favor, and reap the benefits of Dr. Glover’s decades of experience helping men triumph” - Dr. Shawn T. Smith, author of The Tactical Guide to Women

“No More Mr. Nice Guy was one of the resources that introduced me to men’s work over 15 years ago. It’s a classic that every man should read. Since then, I’ve had the pleasure to get to know Dr. Glover and the universe of relationship knowledge and depth he brings to the table. To have a talented writer like Tony Endelman package this body of knowledge up into a concise book is a real gift to the men’s community. Again, one that every man should read." – GS Youngblood, author of The Masculine in Relationship

In the world of self-improvement, there is perhaps no other book that has impacted the lives of men as profoundly as Dr. Robert Glover's No More Mr. Nice Guy. Published in 2003, it has been a beacon of hope for countless men who have struggled to find fulfillment in life and in love; and it continues to be passed around by practitioners and recommended on reading lists as the definitive work on modern male behavior.

While Dr. Glover is best known for No More Mr. Nice Guy, his other work is just as enlightening. Loyal followers of Dr. Glover might also be familiar with his two additional books, his transformative online courses, and his vast library of podcast recordings, Q&A forums, articles, worksheets, and other resources for both men and women.

THE BIG STICK pulls from all of it and more.

Written by Tony Endelman, a popular self-help blogger and one of Dr. Glover's elite certified coaches, The Big Stick encapsulates nearly 40 years of Dr. Glover's groundbreaking work as a marriage and family therapist, a dating and relationship coach, an educator, a public speaker, and pioneer in men’s self-improvement.

Divided into nine major sections, THE BIG STICKis truly a man's guide to (almost) everything, from dating and relationships to career success and happiness. Inside, you’ll learn how THE BIG STICK gives you all the tools you need to become what Dr. Glover calls an Integrated Male. You'll also learn why Endelman credits Dr. Glover with changing his life. And you'll discover why so many men have called Dr. Glover's work the big stick upside the head that they needed.